This post is for you women out there. Say your in a relationship. Then one day, your in a situation with your partner that is trending negative. Bad vibes in the air. First try to deescallate the argument. Take a deep breath think and calm yourself. Then choose your words carefully, don't add fuel to the fire. Say the argument gets real heated, once he touches you in an aggressive manner, try to move away from him while staying calm and try to say short sentences with long pauses in between. Once your away from that encounter it's time to drop him permanently. No second chances if you want to have a better life. It's not good to be a needy person. It's like shopping for a dress, you don't buy the first one you grab off the rack. You grab several and try them on. Do that with the boyfriends. It also works with husbands, if they hit you, go to a shelter. These people will guide you out of your predicament.
If the argument is getting real bad, you call on spirit for it's intervention. Do that immediately. It could literally save your life!