Let's compare our life to that of a small boat. Our parents show us to the best of their ability how to get along in life. They are steering our boat until we get the hang of it. When we turn 18, it's up to us. The scary part is about to begin. Responsibility will take center stage in our life from here on out. We try to learn from our mistakes and not repeat them. Don't look back always push on forward, keeping a firm grip on the rudder which is found at the back of the boat. This is what we use to steer the boat in the direction we want to go. A loose grip on the rudder means were at the mercy of the water. We will go around in circles, letting events controll us instead of us controlling them. I belonged to this category for a long time. I still learned a lot though even though I was going in circles. Better if you know what direction you want to go. Keep a firm grip on your rudder so that you will have a more fulfilling life. Keep a book in your bedroom and write down a few of your goals down and date them yr mo and day. Think about it and ad to the list at least once per week, Sunday is a good day. Always call on spirit when you don't know what to do next. Try it for a month and see where you are after the month is over.
Don't wait on things to happen, make them happen. Then you will see your days of being adrift will come to an end. Living starts when you take responsibility for your life and cease blaming others. What ever it is that is irksome to you, you focus on that problem and try to make it better. You invite spirit in to help you with the difficulty.
In a previous post I talked about my mother. I wanted the dynamic between us to end and new positive experience to replace it. The post title was mom. It worked out just great. It didn't happen until I took action in that direction.
If there are negative people in your life, it's time to distance yourself from them.. wish them well and move on. Simple..... yes. If you lend money don't expect it back. If it causes you grief then don't lend money out anymore. Speak no gossip at work. Stay positive with your co workers. Try to mend a beef with a coworker. If it is a no go. Make plans to leave the job. Say no to the things you don't want and yes to the things you do want.
A friend of mine said no to be lonely and spirt brought her a new friend. She also wanted a close male she could have an intimate relationship with. That didn't happen because she interfered with other peoples relationships.
Stay positve in all situations, and you will reap the benefits always. Ask yourself does this feel right? Contemplate on your next course of action trying to feel the best actions that you can do next. If you don't feel the answer give it a rest for a few days then return to the problem. You can also try to resolve issues down on paper. Save all your writtings, overtime it will show you how much you learned since you started taking an active roll in plotting out your new life.
Being in control of your boat will give you a better view of your future life. And the ability through spirits help to surmount problems that come along on one's journey.
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